I
think one of the greatest words I know is strength. Have you ever noticed an
oak tree and thought of the strength in the limbs? Can it be possible that
people have that same kind of strength? The kind that endures and comes to our
rescue when we think a situation is hopeless. I think it is.
There was a child in the
head start program at Greasy Creek Elementary School. This little boy had
Downs-Syndrome and was considered in the high range of mental retardation, but
looking into those bright little four year old eyes you could see a will of
iron. This child was determined to learn. If he ran into something beyond his
comprehension he wouldn't stop until he had either figured out, or someone had
explained it in a way he could understand. Now, nine years later, he is
thirteen and in the top one-fourth of his class. He is no longer considered
retarded and regularly amazes doctors with his abilities. This child is using
his strength to educate himself and do something great.
On another occasion in my
life I came to know a woman, I'll call her Ann. Ann was married to an
alcoholic. Her husband hadn't always been this way, but when work went bad and
money was low he turned to alcohol. The alcohol released the control released
the control he had over his anger and bitterness. That's when the abuse
started. At first Ann thought that when her husband went back to work
everything would be okay. She didn't understand how sick he had become. In
time he found work, but things didn't change. He would always find a reason to
drink, and then he would find a reason to hit.
Ann was the mother of two,
with no education to speak of , and no job experience. At that time Ann saw no
way out. Then one evening as he sat in his favorite chair watching television
Ann's husband turned on their six year old daughter. The little girl had
gotten in front of the television. Cursing and calling the little girl names,
he raised his hand to strike. Ann was faster, grabbing her daughter she ran to
the children's room to get her son. Ann locked the three of them in the
bathroom, the only room with a door that locked. That night after he had
drunk himself into a stupor Ann left the monster her husband had become. With
only the cash she had stolen from her husbands wallet and what few clothes
they could gather Ann disappeared from my life for two years. Finally, I
received a letter from her. Ann made it to Montana to her family. She is in
school to be a nurse and working full time in a factory.
In my experiences in life I
have found that some people are like the mighty oak. The heart of these
special people give them an almost unbelievable strength of spirit. Now that
is the true definition of strength.
Beverly Chaney
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